1 Peter 4:12 NIV - Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you; but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ's sufferings that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy. Sometimes life just isn't fair. We've all encountered situations that have left us asking the question "how did this happen?" or repeating the phrase, "why me." Some of the stories that we hear about in the news are simply heart-breaking. We hear about senseless killings, reports of abuse and attacks on innocent people. Whatever happened to common courtesy and basic human decency? The word of God instructs us to not think it a strange thing when we face trials. We are actually encouraged to rejoice in times of pain and uncertainty. I know it's a hard thing to hear but, as long as we live and breathe conflict will forever be part of our story, with new chapters spontaneously forming daily. In the newly released book: Stand, Learning to Lead Through Conflict, Dr. Timothy W. Sloan encourages us all by saying, "we are men and women who have been endued with heavenly power to fulfill our divine purpose of leading others." To become more effective in dealing with others and their circumstances, we have to face our personal crisis with authority and boldness. Here are a few things that we can do to transform our personal conflicts into opportunities to help others.
Be Transparent in your approach: People are more willing to listen to what you have to say and follow your lead if they can relate to you and establish a sense of trust. Use your experiences to create opportunities of Peace by listening, offering encouragement and simply being available.
Step out of you Comfort Zone: Change your approach. If you're constantly running into resistance, it's time to do things differently. Create your own personal prayer of Jabez. Dee Marshall of Girlfriends Pray says it best, "Lord show me how to take Who I am, Who I want to be and What I can do and use it for a purpose greater than myself. Now that's a prayer that will certainly enlarge your territory!
Be Flexible: Be willing to work with others, the word says, "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Remember, experiences both good and bad are usable. Incorporate your experiences and the three approaches listed above to deal with others and help them along their path to healing. Peace and Wellness, SuGa
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